A lying, narcissistic, damaged man: Mary Trump on her uncle in tell-all book

She blamed a toxic family for raising a narcissistic, damaged man who poses an immediate danger to the public

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The frustration with President Trump, particularly in the last few days, is that no matter how he tried, things are not working out | File Photo: PTI

President Donald Trump’s niece offers a scathing portrayal of her uncle in a new book, blaming a toxic family for raising a narcissistic, damaged man who poses an immediate danger to the public, according to a copy obtained by The Associated Press.

Mary L. Trump, a psychologist, writes in Too Much and Never Enough, How My Family Created The Worlds Most Dangerous Man that Trump’s re-election would be catastrophic and that lying, playing to the lowest common denominator, cheating, and sowing division are all he knows.

By the time this book is published, hundreds of thousands of American lives will have been sacrificed on the altar of Donald’s hubris and willful ignorance. If he is afforded a second term, it would be the end of American democracy,” she writes.

Mary Trump is the daughter of Trump’s elder brother, Fred Jr., who died after a struggle with alcoholism in 1981 at 42. The book is the second insider account in two months to paint a deeply unflattering portrait of the president, following the release of former national security adviser John Bolton’s bestseller, The Room Where It Happened.

In her book, Mary Trump, who is estranged from her uncle, makes several revelations, including alleging that the president paid a friend to take the SAT test in his place.

She writes that his sister Maryanne Trump did his homework for him but couldn’t take his tests and he worried his grade point average, which put him far from the top of the class, would scuttle his efforts to get accepted into the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, where he transferred after two years at Fordham University in the Bronx.

To hedge his bets he enlisted Joe Shapiro, a smart kid with a reputation for being a good test taker, to take his SATs for him, she writes, adding, Donald, who never lacked for funds, paid his buddy well.

White House spokesperson Sarah Matthews called the allegation completely false. Mary Trump also writes, in awe, of Trump’s ability to gain the support of prominent Christian leaders and white evangelicals, saying: The only time Donald went to church was when the cameras were there. Its mind boggling. He has no principles. None!

White House press secretary Kayleigh McEnany slammed the book, saying, “Its ridiculous, absurd accusations that have absolutely no bearing in truth.”

Mary Trump traces much of her pain to the death of her father when she was 16. The president, who rarely admits mistakes, told The Washington Post last year that he regretted the pressure he and his father had put on Fred Jr. to join the family business when his brother wanted to be a pilot instead. “It was just not his thing. I think the mistake that we made was we assumed that everybody would like it. That would be the biggest mistake.There was sort of a double pressure put on him,” Trump told the paper.

Yet as her father lay dying alone, Mary Trump claims, Donald went to the movies. She says that, as a child, Donald Trump hid favorite toys from his younger brother and took juvenile stunts like Fred Jr. dumping a bowl of mashed potatoes on his then-7-year-old head so seriously that he harbored resentments even when his eldest sister, Maryanne, brought it up in her toast at his White House birthday dinner in 2017.

She paints Trump, who often called her “honeybunch,” as a self-centered narcissist who demanded constant adulation even from his family and had little regard for family member’s feelings.

Trump’s crude rhetoric on the campaign trail, she said, was nothing new, reminding her of every family meal I’d ever attended during which Donald had talked about all of the women he considered ugly, fat slobs or the men, usually more accomplished or powerful, he called losers.

The book is, at its heart, a lengthy psychoanalysis of the Trump family by a woman trained in the field, who sees the traits of her uncle that critics despise as a natural progression of behaviour developed at the knees of a demanding father. For Donald Trump, she writes, lying was defensive not simply a way to circumvent his father’s disapproval or to avoid punishment, but a way to survive.

Publisher Simon & Schuster announced Monday that it would be publishing the book two weeks early, on July 14, after a New York appellate court cleared the way for the book’s publication following a legal challenge.

Robert Trump, the president’s younger brother, had sued Mary Trump, arguing in legal papers that she was subject to a 20-year-old agreement between family members that no one would publish accounts involving core family member’s without their approval.

A judge last week left in place a restraint that blocked Mary Trump and any agent of hers from distributing the book, but the court made clear it was not considering Simon & Schuster to be covered by the ruling.

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